July 16, 2018

Fabulous Friendships: Are You The Best Friend You Can Be?

Friendships and human connections really are the most important things in the world. You could have the most amazing job, tons of money, lots of great possessions and every material thing you ever wanted, but without the right people around you you’ll be lonely and never experience life’s true potential. Having friends gives you security, a support network you can fall back on, they introduce you to new things, places and experiences. When you’re on your deathbed, it’s not the hours you worked or the money you earned that will mean something to you- instead it will be all about the friends, family and connections with people that you had. But what makes a good friend? Here are a few examples.





Be Trustworthy
Trust is everything in friendship. When a friend tells you something in confidence, it should go no further. It should be told to another friend, your partner or anyone else. Being someone that your friend trusts and can confide in creates a special bond between you. Having someone you can truly trust, open up to and be vulnerable to knowing there will be no judgement is incredibly special too.


Celebrate Their Successes
Lots of people can get a case of the ‘green eyed monster’ even when it comes to their friends. Watching those close to us get promoted, get married, buy a house, go on fancy holidays and doing all of the things that we want to do can cause some degree of envy. However, it’s so important to remember that others successes won’t inhibit your own. As a true friend, you should truly be happy for all that your friend is achieving and celebrate their successes with them. Go on a night out to celebrate, purchase them a little gift- something from John Henric would be good for guys who are notoriously difficult to buy for. At the very least, get them a card and write a note explaining why you’re proud of them. The little things really do matter.


Be Reliable

We all lead busy lives, and finding the time to socialize and see friends can sometimes be tricky. Every now and then, we all need to bail on plans because something else came up which is unfortunate but one of those things. However, if you’re constantly making, changing and breaking plans then what you’re doing is showing your friends you’re unreliable. Unless it genuinely can’t be helped then show up and be there for those you care about. Sometimes being a good friend means doing the kinds of jobs you’d rather not do, like picking them up from the airport at 3am, helping them move house on a scorching summer’s day or looking after their pets and/or children when they’ve no one else to help. But these acts of kindness are what shows you’re a reliable friend and lets face it, when we’re in a tough spot it’s nice to know that we have someone there willing to do the same for us.

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